A wedding is your day. Your friends and family, everyone you love most, together to celebrate with you and your partner. It’s basically the greatest party you’ll ever throw, the one day where everything will be about you two. It’s the perfect day to do things your way!
There’s a lot of tradition associated with weddings, and there can be a lot of pressure from friends and family to do things certain ways. The whole something borrowed and blue, church wedding with the veil and the cake and the tear-jerker first dance. And if that’s what you want, then do it. Be unabashedly traditional if that’s your style! But if it’s not, then be you.
Maybe you’re a rock climbing, trail mix eating, outdoor extremist. Then get married in the middle of the woods, or overlooking a lake, with flowers in your hair. And you can repel into your reception. Or maybe you’re all about the glamour. Try a pink ball gown dress or a masquerade ceremony or a Louis Vuitton themed wedding cake. If you’re more of a literary type, you can sort your guests into Hogwarts houses or base your vows off Darcy’s confession of love or have a mad tea party reception.
There is definitely the possibility of being too cheesy, too themed, too over the top. In the end the day is about you and the beginning of your lives together and you don’t want to distract from that. I’m just saying that a little creativity can go a long way in making your day your own. Don’t feel ashamed of the things that make you and your partner special… Maybe he proposed at a carnival. Why not use that somehow? You could have cupcakes that look like the big top. Maybe you have a favorite saying. Put it in your vows. Maybe you really don’t want a church wedding or a traditional dress or you don’t like cake or veils. You are not tied to tradition. Do what makes you both happy!
Talking with friends who get you or a wedding planner who’s willing to listen and think outside the box are good places to start. Decide what your priorities are, where you want to spend effort and money planning, where you’re uncomfortable with the ‘expected’, and what is best for you and your partner. Go from there! This is your special day. Don’t be afraid to make it as unique as you are. People may talk, your mom may complain, but at the end of the day this is your wedding. What do you want it to be? Gather ideas, talk with your fiancée, decide what makes you happy. And go for it.
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